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Good days and bad days

posted on Friday, February 1, 2008 by Ruth in [Daisy, Henry]
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When I was pregnant with Henry, and fretting slightly about whether I could cope with being outnumbered by my children for big chunks of the day, a good friend of mine said, “The bad days are no worse.? A bad day with two is just the same as a bad day with one.? And the good days are fine!”

Yesterday was not a bad day, but it did have a bad few hours in the middle of it, in which Daisy and I drove each other to distraction for a while, and Henry woke up far too soon from his afternoon nap.

I indulged myself for a while, with worrying that I wasn’t cut out for the stay-at-home-Mum thing, that I wasn’t coping, and then a I remembered: there were days when I couldn’t cope with going to work, either.? Maybe, some days, I can’t cope, full stop!

I got my act together, after that, and started playing with my daughter properly, and the day righted itself.? But I think the lesson is important: just because I’m moaning doesn’t mean I’ve made bad decisions with my lifestyle; it just means that some days I can’t cope with anything!

Kevin

It’s a Daddy Daisy Day!

posted on Wednesday, January 16, 2008 by Kevin in [Daisy, Henry]
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It’s been a very long time since the last one, today is a daddy daisy day.

Ruth is going to a funeral today, So i have taken to day off to look after Daisy, at one point I was going to look after Henry too, but having promised Daisy the day, coupled with the idea of managing both of them around town (once i had told Daisy that there was no going back!), we decided that Henry would go with Ruth and Daisy and Me would go off and have fun (and buy birthday pressies!).

The plan is to go to town, buy some stuff and visit the walker (i.e. the big art bit). I asked Daisy last night if she wanted to go by Train or Bus and after a good long think she said Train. She was obviously torn, so i think we might go by train and come back by bus. I honestly think we could just do the trip and she would be happy.

warroooo!

it’s not exactly stating well mind. Henry woke up at around 4:15 and showed no signs of sleeping, So i’ve just watched Two Pints with him strapped to my front, He went off. then woke up when we put him down, this woke Daisy who then insisted on sleeping in our bed, but as Henry was still trying to settle, I’ve just had the battle to get her back in to her room. after two screams I think I ‘won’; but that does depend of your definition on won. It’s now 6am an I won’t be going back to bed.

Ruth

Ostentatiously educational

posted on Monday, January 14, 2008 by Ruth in [Consuming, Culture, Daisy, Education, Henry]
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I’m starting to loathe about half of our baby toys. The VTech ones, the LeapPad ones, and pretty much anything else electronic. They claim to be targetted at babies aged six months plus, but they’re not. They are entirely targetted at the over-pushy, socially ambtious aspirations of middle-class parents - or at the very least, at the companies’ perceptions of those parents. But they’re probably right, they don’t do these things without researching the market first.

The thing is, you can’t really blame the manufacturers. However noble their intentions, six month old babies don’t buy toys - their parents do. So their priority is, naturally, to appeal to parents, partly by appearing to appeal to babies*, but mostly by tapping into parental aspirations for those babies.

That is the only explanation that I can come up with, for why my six-month-old baby’s toys are endeavouring to teach him the alphabet. I mean, really. What is the point? Counting and letter work are for children, not babies. Three at the youngest, and only then if they’re both bright and keen. At six months, it should be all about music, and shape, and texture, and maybe some dexterity and motor skills. He’s still learning what happens when you let go of a toy over an empty space. Not only is it inappropriate to expect him to learn to count at this stage, 1) it’s never going to happen, and 2) it’s a distraction from the things he should be learning.

Leap Frog Phonics Radio - one I don?t hate as muchAnd don’t get me started on big statements about “Learning Fun”. That’s for my benefit, not his, and is to make me think “Oh good, this is an educational toy” - as if there was such a thing as a non-educational toy, and as if he would ever bother to play with it if there was…

In defence of VTech, LeapPad and the rest, I think they meandered into the baby market by accident, and exceeded their expertise in the process. Their older-kids toys are great - Daisy is genuinely learning the alphabet from her Leap Frog Phonics Radio, and seems to enjoy doing it, in a now-and-then, when-she-feels-like-it sort of way. Doing basically the same things in toys for babies, though, doesn’t make much sense to me.

* Fortunately, the effect is alleviated by this simple truth: the easiest way to appear to appeal to a baby, is to actually do so. If that wasn’t true, the toys would be even worse.

Kevin

one meal for all!

posted on Saturday, January 12, 2008 by Kevin in [Daisy, Henry, Insight]
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We’ve just past another milestone in the land of the Jumps, everybody in the house has just had the same tea! chicken and mushroom risotto all round (Henry’ s was a bit mashed!)

Kevin

so that was quite a big crowd then

posted on Friday, January 11, 2008 by Kevin in [Culture, Daisy, Henry, Liverpool]
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So we are sitting in our house contemplating our own parenting stupidity. Tonight we as a family went to the Liverpool 08 - People’s Opening outside St George’s Hall. It was a bit of a last minute decision, but we did plan the first bit quite well.

We go to the car park next to Lime Street at around 6:30 which meant we actually got to park real close, and when we arrived it was busy but not heaving so we contemplated where to stand and picked a nice spot next to the empire.?

the next challenge was keeping Daisy occupied for 1 1/2 hours, while nothing much (or nothing at all) happened. There was lots of picking up and putting down, and quite a bit of shinning a torch up daddies nose to see if it was OK (happy to report it was).

up until around 7:20 it was fine, we where troubled by the odd drunk who had obviously drained the nearest pub and was in need of another pump to stick his mouth under. But then it started to get really packed. Ruth had Henry tied to her front and i was carrying daisy in my arms.

Then it got really busy and people where knocking us, Ruth was standing over a street sign so Henry was snuggly asleep but even this go to bumpy and at around 8:00 (8 minuets before the start) we realised the error of our ways and left.

leaving was actually even scarier, it turned out that the street behind us was even more packed than the bit we where standing in, I used Daisy like a big snow plough, and basically pushed people out of the way. Most people where fine they could see I had a child who had?enough and they just squiged out of the way. One woman was all sarky, but I didn’t and still don’t care.

there was a point when i considered getting to the police car i could see in the middle of the crowd and putting daisy on the roof, but by the time we got to it, we actually where close to the edge of the crowd, so we darted out and back to the car.

We got to the car just as it started. Shaken and quite frankly thankful that we left before it started.?

we knew it would be busy, just not that busy, and the Friday drunk factor didn’t help. I for one am sitting here now, thinking we where stupid, taking the kids was a BIG mistake, but at least we go out, and that’s something we won’t do again. ?

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Ruth

Sick sense of humour

posted on Thursday, January 10, 2008 by Ruth in [Daisy, Henry]
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Daisy just tripped over, and six-month-old Henry laughed…

Kevin

learning fun!

posted on Monday, January 7, 2008 by Kevin in [Childhood, Christmas, Consuming, Henry]
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Over Christmas our house has suffered another influx of attention seeking talking toys. It’s not bad enough that they constantly sing every-time someone walks past them, but if you don’t touch them they start screaming for attention.

my ‘favorite’ two phases spinning around my head today are

“are you read for the learning fun?”

“lets go on a learning journey”

don’t know what you play with if you don’t want to learn anything.

*i don’t want people to think we are ungrateful, for all those who bought us these presents, thank you, really if we didn’t have them our children would be climbing the walls, but still i’m allowed to go mad arn’t I?